

Lexile Measure: 0560 (What's this?)
Series: Boston Globe-Horn Book Honors (Awards)
Hardcover: 304 pages
Publisher: Wendy Lamb Books (August 4, 2015)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0385743173
ISBN-13: 978-0385743174
Product Dimensions: 5.8 x 1 x 8.5 inches
Shipping Weight: 1.6 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (75 customer reviews)
Best Sellers Rank: #35,934 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #29 in Books > Children's Books > Growing Up & Facts of Life > Friendship, Social Skills & School Life > Peer Pressure #430 in Books > Children's Books > Growing Up & Facts of Life > Friendship, Social Skills & School Life > Emotions & Feelings #994 in Books > Children's Books > Growing Up & Facts of Life > Friendship, Social Skills & School Life > Friendship
Age Range: 10 and up
Grade Level: 5 and up

Rebecca Stead writes great books that at first glance, seem like light little stories about friends hanging out and having some fun adventures together. There's usually an interesting mystery involved and her well developed characters learn new things about themselves, and where they fit into the world they live in.Happily this book, Goodbye Stranger, follows the same format. It is set in a 7th and 8th grade school in New York City, it is about friendship and loyalty and the meaning of life (really!) It's about making good choices, trusting, supporting and forgiving your friends when they do something stupid. There is an, appropriate for middle grade, cautionary tale plot line related to internet safety and what can happen if you text pictures that you wouldn't want others to see, to a boy. it doesn't delve deeply into these topics and it never goes dark. The kids learn the right lesson without suffering any long lasting, traumatic scars. All in all I enjoyed this book, but since my twelve yr old daughter is more the target reader than I am, I also put it in her hands.Her thoughts: She read it in a day and liked it a lot. She thought the friendship between the three main girls was believable but she thought some of the plot would be more likely to happen in a high school than a middle school. The developing relationship between Em and the 8th grade boy seemed, to her, too advanced compared to the fellow 7and 8 graders that she knows. She is speaking from her own current personal experience of living in exactly that world, probably not true of every middle school though.
After much consideration, I think I’m going to begin this review with what has to be the hoity toity-est opening I have ever come up with. Gird thy loins, mes amies. In her 2006 book Betraying Spinoza: The Renegade Jew Who Gave Us Modernity (don’t say you weren’t warned), philosopher Rebecca Goldstein wrote the following passage about the concept of personal identity: “What is it that makes a person the very person that she is, herself alone and not another, an integrity of identity that persists over time, undergoing changes and yet still continuing to be — until she does not continue any longer, at least not unproblematically?” In other words, why is the “you” that you were at five the same person as the “you” at thirteen or fourteen? Now I don’t know that a lot of 10-14 year olds spend their days contemplating the philosophical meanings behind their sense of self from one stage of life to another. But if they hadn’t before, they’re about to now. Goodbye Stranger by Rebecca Stead has taken what on the surface might look like a fluffy middle school tale of selfies and first loves and turned it into a much more layered discussion of bodies, feminism, the male (and female) gaze, female friendships, relationships, and betrayals. And fake moon landings. And fuzzy cat ear headbands. Hard to pin this one down, honestly.By all logic, Bridge should have died when she was eight years old. She skated into the street and got hit by a car, after all. Yet Bridge lived and with seemingly no serious repercussions. Recently she’s been taking to wearing little black cat ears on her head, but her best friends Emily and Tab don’t mind. It’s their seventh grade year and there are bigger things on their minds.
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